
Rev. Dr. Néstor Gómez Bethany Fellows Disciple Leader
Where are you in the world and who do you do life with?
I serve as the Lead Director/Pastor of First Congregational Church in Stamford, Connecticut.
Enneagram Number
TBD – We will see this fall!
Tell us about your Call to Ministry.
My call to ministry is an open invitation from God to become involved in God’s kin-dom loving my neighbors as loving myself. It’s a call to serve and not to be served. It’s a call to give hope in a world in despair. It’s a call to walk along with those who have been put aside in the margins of our society. It’s a call to bring the light of God in the darkness of our souls.
Why Bethany Fellows?
Bethany has become a family of friendship and colleagues where I am free to be fully myself. It is a world of laughter and wisdom, where conversations emerge naturally and without judgment. Within Bethany, I have experienced both joy and grief, and learned that they can coexist together.
It is here that I have reaffirmed my identity within the community of those who follow the Way. Why? Because at Bethany, I can drink from my own well and hear the Spirit of God whispering in my ear: “Beloved.”
Can you share a retreat highlight?
At the Redemptorist Renewal Center 2025, a vivid experience for me was when we met together with the Disciple leaders and shared our stories of life. The question revolted around what was going in our lives. It was a prayerful moment of listening to others, meditating, and supporting one another. Then we drunk coffee and smiled.
Favorite Ice-cream Flavor or Dessert?
Strawberry
Bless us with words of wisdom or book that is sustaining you.
These days I’m reading, Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day! Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs & In-Betweens by Kate Bowler. Recommended!



